No expectations, No problem!

      How many times more than often are you overly joyed to see your significant other every once in a while? It's like Christmas when they actually CAN hang out. Can't sleep the night before because your just too damn excited. And then the inevitable happens... You don't. All the excitment build up, and hours counted down, and moments you fantasized..Ruined, Let down, and poof- gone. This is perpetually a habit now. I don't know how many times I ask "but really, are we REALLY going to hang out?!" I don't even know why I ask really. So here it is. Rule 2,345: have ZERO expectations. Now I'm not saying all architects are out to disappoint and are out to let you down. Their again, more than likely doing something that's involved with their God forsaken homework. Never being able to catch up with their timeless projects they find in their spare time great fun to work on. Don't take it personally, and if you want my advice it's easier to just assume you won't see them when your actually supposed to. (That's why their ghosts they only show when you don't want them to.) And for peetes sake give it up, their not waiting at your house with some fancy dinner they made from scratch, no dozen roses, and certainly no "I'm so happy your home" kisses. They are where they will always be. With their other girlfriend- studio. If the expectation isn't there, there is no reason to get upset or hurt by their absence, and later on you'll be happy to say things like "Hi meet my boyfriend ghost, who actually won't ever be able to make it to anything because he's an architect major." To everyone who suffers from this. God bless, and rememeber- no expectations no problem!